I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work. Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult.
If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun. I am married to an ER doc and agree that having your own life, being independent, and not going into the relationship with any preconceived notions is what makes it work for us. You join the LDS Church. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. Maybe if I met him at another point in time, things would have worked with us.
She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone. Help answer questions Learn more. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state.
They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I envy all you lonely doctor wives. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion.